If Neil Strauss, author of the game, the single Handily destroyed PUA community?

Men trying to understand women, forever. Countless books have been written on this subject over the years, but none seems to work. This was before Neil Strauss recently published, the game-penetrating a secret society to pick up artist. Neil's book, best seller, it seems the first book that men actually commit to as the Savior of men's race.

This book describes Neil's journey from the AFC (average frustrated Chump) PUA (pick up artist) Neil, style, or as he refers to himself in the book, join the underground community of aspiring PUA's and starts to like everything he knows about women. After he watered down his old faith new teachers, gurus, mad scientists fill the seducing his brain with the methods they use.

The mystery, the mystery method, his system focuses on model M3. This model includes: building attraction, building comfort and seduction. The mystery of attraction builds using DHVs (high demonstration value.) DHV might just be a story in which the storyteller shows certain characteristics he wants his audience to pick up on, or it can be a magic trick, a funny joke or how it targets friends and AMOGs (the alpha male of the group.)

In the book he gives Nils quite a number of examples of openers, subprogrammes and closes he learned during his time training with mystery, David Deangelo Ross Jeffries, juggler and many other seduction gurus out there.

Some of the common examples of Neil in the arsenal of seduction:
View opener
Cat on string theory
Test best friend
Cube
Dual induction massage
The Usual ESP
Negging purpose
Kiss close
(C) against u shaped smiles

While all of these procedures are field tested and working, that is the question; How long they survive now that these procedures are basic knowledge. How long before women get the people to do it? How long before they heard the exact same opener twice in one night?

Neil Strauss was recently on this issue. Here is his answer:

"That is, the game will work. It's just that some of the wording in the scenario, you might need to change-and this is only for those who use scripts to "learning".

For example:

That is one of the most cliched pickup lines in the world?

Corniest, cheesiest one?

That's right: it is "what is your sign?

If you go to her and say, "what's your sign?" she'll know to deliver production pickup lines from some Bad 70 's TV show.

But guess what? "What's your sign" is almost exactly the same as the openers and DHVs (demonstrating higher value) in the game.

There was a point when "what's your sign" not a corny way to start a conversation. It wasn't sexual opener: exploits of the ice with strangers without hitting them. This was a current theme, fun and interesting. (As mystery, best themes for conversations and relationships are unknown). In addition, this was a way to show the importance. Rather than say "Let's ball" (or all that at the time was slang), showing were spiritual and had interesting knowledge to offer.

In terms of the Seduction community was neutral entertainment opener with DHV peaks, built in.

And, of course, we all know it is outdated and cheesy. But the extraordinary as a few minutes later, seventy percent of all conversations with women who discuss astrology is derived? It might ask you, "what sign are you?" and if you know a lot about astrology, this is actually a demonstration of higher value.

(Note for a logical, empirical, actual men: don't say "I don't believe in that bullshit." the cynicism and negativity are two features of avoid when meeting a woman, even if you think they do you think it is "cool.")

When I was researching the book, I spent hours in Miami with PUA named Maddash who gave me a long tutorial on astrology. He taught me that all the signs, twelve houses were meant to identify astrological trends in people's lives and how to determine compatibility.

I believe in astrology was immaterial: I now know a lot about it. And he made a great conversation, relationships, and value, when I was meeting people.

Thus I had the Epiphany was: "what's your sign" still works. It will always work.

It will always work. If people find out about it, all you have to do is change the way you speak, and maybe when you say it.

For example, if you said, "Hey guys, I need to quickly view something" telegraphs delivery pickup line, because they read about it in the magazine, don't worry. Just change it to: "I need quick help settle the debate. If the view does not work anymore can openers, save for later in the conversation. I already have three types of opening that I came up with what I'm waiting for the right time to release. And if I can come up with alternatives, I have the feeling that you can too.

In the bigger picture, is that it is very important to remember: there is no such thing as a pickup line. The language and wording are irrelevant. Importance is the intention behind them. Jealous girlfriend opener works not because it's jealous girlfriend opener, but because it is a way to start the animated conversation with a group of people without hitting on someone. So, until you can do it, you have nothing to worry about.

Basic knowledge of both men and women attracted to each other will not be changed. To make a bad comparison, guys who like big breasts, usually against women with fake breast; It doesn't even matter that they are not real. They continue to flip the same attraction switches natural do. "

So Neil clearly believes that the responsibility for PUA continue to evolve. I couldn't agree more. I am totally shocked when I'm at the bar and I hear the guy while reciting the word-for-Word, which he learned in the book. It's one thing to learn the principles and rely on them with your own personality and experience, and another thing to be a social robot.

Websites like TSB magazine receive thousands of visits every day. I can only hope that men surfing these sites looking for education in greater understanding of attraction and seduction and not looking for Word for Word line to say to women in a bar.